Cherellenicole

So i have been on some dating apps and have been speaking to men, and one thing i have learnt is men are so weird.

So this has happened to me a couple times now, where I’ve been speaking to a man and the conversation is going well and all that and we are vibing, then they disappear for a bit. Life gets in the way, work gets in the way etc. I TOTALLY understand and get it. I am not the one to chase any man, I will leave them alone and if they respond they we continue if they don’t whatever.

What’s happened to me is that we will chat, they disappear for a week or 2, then come back, and message me, and then when i haven’t responded in a timely manner, I’ve been deleted or blocked. LIKE WTF.

Why??? I didn’t bother you, I didn’t chase, or bug, I let you get on with your life, and yet when you don’t get a response all of sudden, you don’t want to talk to me anymore. That is wild to me.

What in the double standards is that??

Now I have been told I am chilled and easy to talk to, I’m a go with the flow kinda gal. Maybe not a good thing, but I take everything in life with a pinch of salt, It’s just how I’ve learnt to live my life, and I think this has helped me navigate the world of men because there are some ODD ones out there.

I think the thing that bothers me, isn’t that I’ve been blocked, because no offence to men, but you are easily replaced. It’s the lack of communication before the blocking. Like if there is an issue or problem, I’m a big girl and you can tell me about it. Whether it’s something I need to work on, or just you aren’t feeling it any more, tell me. I like communication. I’ve read many a books, and see many TV and films, and real life, where everything has gone wrong because people don’t talk to each other.

Any way, I hope whoever you are reading this, you are having a happy dating life.

Peace out

Cherelle